He is very violent: Domestic Violence

To answer this question, it is necessary to rethink the ways and means in which we relate to the individual. The road is not easy, and sometimes, it hurts us realize that we have experienced some very destructive in the relationship. In addition it takes courage to face our own violent ways of being, as well as support it.

Love and violence are hot topics because we are stuck in the depths of our being. However, there are now private institutional support and advise couples to confront, and possibly modify it. Women can not be alone, men do not, so it is important to understand various factors: social, cultural, economic as well as personal and individual.

It is in these individual factors which we can act. Violence as a form of control is not justified in any way, and no intensity, in love couple. It's about building constructive links to grow, develop and model behavior best ways for new generations.

So to overcome this violence is important:

1 - Take responsibility for their own behavior, its consequences, as well as the review of personal biography and undergo a self inside. Learning new ways of relating, and above all, practice forgiveness himself.

2 .- That is, take means to stop intrusions have a couple spaces: the social, family, intellectual, labor, sexual and intimate. Respect and trust each other's lives, is a precondition for this. In here, where the conduct has to start limited. At times, it is not easy to tolerate the anxiety of change, but be aware of this, to recognize, and thus modify. Gradually cede anxiety, emotions chaotic. It is therefore best done in conjunction with specialists that can contain these anxieties and fears.

3 .- Accept the differences, the couple did not have to think like you, talk like you, think like you, make love like you and love you as you say you have to love. The couple is an individual with their ways and behaviors, which attracted you at first. Changing expectations and forms of ownership in relation to the female sex and family.

4 .- Learning to meet their own needs. That is, stop waiting for the couple to do things for us. Assume the roles that each UNON has decided to play, and support, not violent.

5 .- training in other forms and patterns of relationship. Improve communication, first with yourself, to know our feelings, our thoughts, our actions and needs, and then those of my partner, as well as relationship and family. Give each specific weight its importance. The family and the couple are a society in which all require care and respect.

6 .- Building egalitarian relationship: both the couple and I formed an important part of the bond and this needs to be equal in everything. Women require an assessment of what they do, but for now, their world is domestic only.'re A team and all require a level playing field to operate.

7 .- The Courage to Heal: to have the full conviction to change and build better relationships. And here I stop, have the courage to heal, to change, is the driving force that must not be long.

The destruction has been quite, back to look at ourselves, look at our partner and our family as the most important part that gives us belonging, identity, love, respect, learn new ways of behaving ...

Love does not have to hurt with unnecessary violence. The wounds left in the soul, the spirit remains trapped and life becomes sad and future.

Think about it, is worth living to suffer violence, and nothing but that?

Both men and women involved in situations like this, suffer and go very, very, bad ... solutions exist, only that it requires great self-love and life out of it ...

It is therefore important to become aware of the havoc in the human experience individually generate violence. I repeat, do not talk of physical aggression, but of everything that encompasses and encourages such behavior.

All require work not from a trial, but of understanding both for those who exercise it, to the sufferer.

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